Freebie Friday – Matt, Mom and a Blooming Giveaway!

Best advice from mom would, of course, be Make sure you have an clean underwear! Not that I have ever had an incident where I had to be fearful of the status of my underwear, but it is a sentiment I have passed along to my children because you never know when it may be of extreme importance!

Happy Mother’s Day to all -

I think the best advice my mom gave me was to find the good in others….in a world where there seems to be bad things happening, look for the good….it surrounds you…..

Kelly, you and your mom are so cute! Wonderful photo!

I cannot think of advice just from my mom, but it would be both from my mom and dad. I was always encourage to just be me. I was the youngest out of three, and I just always remember having fun. I was always ME! Now that I’m a mom, I realize that kids struggle on a daily basis to just be themselves. It’s sad to see someone pretending to be something other than what they really are or want to be. Self-confidence is so important to everyone!

My mom also gives me a great compliment quite often. She tells me that she thinks that I’m a good mom. That touches my heart, and makes me proud!

Happy Mother’s Day to your beautiful mom Kelly!!

P.S. Beatriz is AMAZING!! Gorgeous, gorgeous, gorgeous!

One of the best advice I ever received was “Live for the moment,” meaning don’t look too far ahead or dwell too much on the past, but enjoy the now. It was given to me on my bridal shower and it’s been a good reminder to be content and make the best of today’s gift.

best advice was to be yourself.

My mum told me that my nannies can never replace the mother in bringing up children. I have since stopped working to be with my kids…

The best advise that I received was “If you don’t ask, you won’t know.” It sounds simple but truly has opened the doors to possibilities.

The best advice that my mom gave me was to listen more than talk. And it really works! Thank you mom.

When I started dating, my mom shared with me a prayer she prayed when she was falling for my Dad: “Dear Lord, If this is not the man you created for me, then please take him out of my life if I don’t have the strength or sense to walk away.” (My Dad never left and they’ve been married for 38 yrs!!) I also prayed this prayer whenever a relationship started getting serious, and it’s amazing how quickly the relationship ended….. except with my husband of 7 yrs so far!! God is faithful and good.

You gals really do look like sisters – your Mom is young and beautiful like you – loved the matching colors on your outfits. My Mom is my best friend now but growing up she was “Mom”, she kept a tight rein while being caring and loving – she has been my model raising my own kids. Marta

My mom always taught me that you don’t need a man around to do the job. It’s nice if there’s one there, but you can do it yourself!

We will be ‘celebrating’ what is sure to be my mother’s last Mothers’ Day with her in the hospital. I have been so blessed by the outpouring of sweet memories by so many people who love my mother. I don’t have a single ‘bit’ of advice from my mom, but have learned that you never know how many lives your own touches, so make sure you touch others in a positive way.

I also will be celebrating my mother-in-law, who raised quite a man in my husband. She hasn’t given much verbal advice, but has been there with words of wisdom when I’ve asked her to be, and only then–leaving me freedom to make my own choices (and mistakes!) during the past 25 years.

Happiest of Mothers’ Days to all!

One of the best things my Mom told me was “Never go to bed angry”.

Great pic! My mom is an everyday piece of great advice! She is such a smart and wonderful woman. Thanks for the chance!

my grandmother told me when i got married to NEVER go to bed angry. My mom always said to be me and never change for any man and be your own individual person, because you can be married and be an individual

My mom has taught me so much, not always in the form of advice, but just by the way she lives. I think the most important thing she has taught me is to help others in any way you can. My mom is a very patient, caring, and giving person. I hope I can be like that when I grow up

wow what a beautiful collection to give away!

My mother always told me to be true to myself, its the best advise!!

The best advice my mom ever gave me was to be myself. The only one who can make you feel insecure is you. My mom was a smart person.

She said don’t marry for love–marry for everything!

My mom has always been there for me. One of her advice that I always carried with me is to learn to love myself. When I was younger, I was in a not so good relationship. I was so into the guy that sometimes I forget to love myself. Now I know better.

My mom passed away a few years back and when I think of all the things she taught me, it’s hard to say just one thing. I just wish I had asked more questions and spent more time getting to know her as a person…

Happy Mother’s day to all.

Alison

My mom wasn’t one to give advise but she always showed her children love and affection & it’s what I do with my own.

Wow, you and your mom really do look like sisters!
As for my mom, I think the best advice she’s ever given me is to be independent before I marry a man. Finish school, get a good job, and be able to take care of myself. Now that I’ve got a daughter of my own, you know I’ll pass on that advice to her too!
Thanks for the chance to win this lovely package. And HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY to everyone!

She is a great example of sacrificing her personal happiness for the well-being and happiness of her children. I love her

My mom always told me to believe in myself. With her support and encouragement, all of my achievements are that much more special.

My mom taught me some incredible financial principles growing up (see even paid me $200 to read a financial book). Now more than ever I’m so glad she thought me these things.

The best advice my Grandmother gave me was that there was no such word as ‘funner’. I will never forget that LOL.

Study hard, go to college, get a good job. You won’t have to knit your own sweater just to have something to wear, you can buy

My mother always tell me : believe in yourself and have fun everyday
thanks for the great giveaway… I love flowers

There are so many things my mom and grandmother have said to me over the years.. but one that stuck is them telling me, “People can put you down, but nobody can keep you down but yourself.”

Since my mom is Chinese, a lot of her advice was very obscure or way above my little child’s head. But, I think that the best advice my mom ever gave me was to not be afraid to try new things… and that has been something I live by. I love try everything… food, adventures, and even crafts.

my moms best advice was “you can do it” there is nothing you cant do once you set your mind to it. love you mom!

My mom’s advice was to enjoy my kids while I can, because they grow up too fast. She was so right, and I’m so glad I’ve revelled in every minute I’ve had with them so far.

My “other mom” (aka Mom’s best friend Amy) taught me that I needed to be a strong woman, that I can be indedependent, and that I don’t NEED a man in my life to make me “ME”. Always take care of myself, and if you do marry, make sure he’s a GREAT GUY. And never let him forget how GREAT you are!!!

My mother always told me “if you want to keep your husband, always dress nice for him, keep the house clean, train your kids properly, and always give him a kiss when he leaves in the morning and one right when he walks in the door in the evening.” She also told me “never marry a man who doesn’t let you be in charge of the money.”

My mom’s catchphrase growing up was “delayed gratification.” First things first, eh!?!?

Thanks for the great giveaway and Happy Mother’s Day to moms everywhere!

My mom’s best advice came in the form of an action. Love your kids unconditionally. Thanks for the chance!

Such pretty flowers! My mom is great for practical advice, so I’m always calling her when I need to figure out how to clean a stain out of the sofa or make really good sugar cookies.

be yourself.
best advice Mom ever gave me!
and advice that I instill in my own children.

Don’t sweat the small stuff. Be grateful for what you have, and never give up. Definitely the best advice I’ve ever gotten from my mom.
Shelley

What a fabulous photo of you and your mother!

My mom was raised by nuns since the age of 4. My mom didn’t have a lot of advice, but I do remember her telling me to always look for the good in people and to respect all living things. My Dad on the other hand always told me “persevere, and you will succeed.”

I’m torn, really. Two things come to mind. “Always bring a jacket.” You wouldn’t BELIEVE how often she was right on that! I always have one with me now. Just in case. the other is…always use the bathroom before you leave…you never know where the next one will be.” Yup. Always right on that one, too. Specially since I’ve upped my water intake! LOL!

My Mom passed away 9 years ago & I think of her words every day as I experience daily activities. My favorites are “You can do anything you put your mind & heart into” & “always take one day at a time and make the most of it”. I sure miss my “best friend”.

I am over 40 and consider myself very lucky to still have my mom around to give me advice. She loves to give me helpful hints/tips all the time (even if they aren’t really helpful). I would say the best advice she gave me when I was younger is always be true to yourself and honesty is the best policy.

The best advice my Mom gave me was to ‘Let go and let God’. Thanks for the chance to win all these beautiful flowers…what a nice mother’s day gift!

Always treat others with respect and kindness…thanks for the giveaway!

WOW! Great assortment of flowers! The best advise from my mom? That is a tough one, but I remember her telling us when things went wrong, “everything happens for a reason. You just may not know that reason right now.” Very true.

My Mother always wished for me to live with my girlfriends, before moving in with a boyfriend. Hindsight, she was right. Happy Mother’s day one and all!

The best advice my Mom gave was “you can do anything you set your mind to”.

The best advice from my mom was to always do my best. If I do that then there are no regrets!

One of the best pieces of advice from my mom was to keep my baby (and not put him up for adoption) because God would always provide for me. She was so right and I am so glad I listened to her.

Perhaps “best” isn’t the correct adjective, but Mom was always telling us to “wash up.” With all this concern about swine flu, I think that’s good advice.

Unfortunately, my mother was not big on any advice and now comes to me for lots of it. Today, she remains very, very dependant. I have vowed to NOT be that way. My best advice, and there is lots of it, comes from my stamping and bloggin friends.

My mom showed me by example more than she ever stated verbally to me. She was a wonderful example of a mom who put her children FIRST. She was not a career mom, she didn’t wear the latest fashions, she didn’t spend hours on makeup, and she didn’t ever need the latest jewelry fashions…….she did however stay at home with her kids, made sure we were grounded in our beliefs in Christ, made sure that we were taken care of with meals and clothing (she would make them if necessary), and she always made sure we were loved and we all knew it. She was the woman who the kids in the neighborhood wanted for a mom and practically lived at our house in the afternoons. She was the one that people trusted their little ones with every day. She was the woman that kids remember today (all grown up) that taught their bible lessons at Good News Club and Bible camp. My mom lived a life that was true to her faith and showed me by example that being a full time mom was the MOST IMPORTANT job in the world and was worth doing well! Thanks MOM! HAPPY MOTHERS DAY!

The best advice I have didn’t come from my mom, but I do feel it is worth sharing for those other new (AND experienced) moms out there. And it is this:

Don’t worry if your kids get mad at you or hate you because you discipline them or don’t allow them to do something or other.

You are their PARENT, not their FRIEND.

Your job is to raise them to be respectful, courteous, responsible adults. And, IF along the way that causes them to not like you, that is OKAY. They WILL always still love you and get over the anger eventually; and most likely they will appreciate HOW you raised them even more-so, especially when they become parents themselves.

It may be hard to swallow at times, knowing that they feel hatred towards you, but keep in mind that you are doing this FOR THEM and they WILL be better for it in the long run.

Sorry that was long! But since it already is…

Never leave without kissing good-bye, even if it is just to run to the store for some milk. I always kiss my kids before I go ANYWHERE, you just never know!

AND

Never go to bed angry (this goes for partners as well as KIDS!), ALWAYS kiss each other good night and make-up before your slumber. Everyone will be better off for it.

HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY EVERYONE!
Nicole Anderson

My mom’s best advice – If you don’t have something nice to say, don’t say anything at all! This advice has stopped me from saying things I know I would have regretted later!

Sue in Alexandria VA

OH, there it is… must have been lost in internet land for a minute!!

If you look good in it… buy it!!! never put it back on the rack because you will regret it! of course she has taught me so many more meaningful things just by her wonderful example. How to forgive, love and laugh!~

I remember when my mom used to tell me that someday when I was a mom I would understand (referring to some of their rules). Now that I am a mom of 3 teenagers……………I do understand. At the time, I thought she was just “mean” and now I find myself telling my kids the same thing.

Best advice my mom has ever given…wow, there has been so much…and there still is. I guess the best thing is that she is still caring enough to give advice!

Mystep mother over the years has told be me many things; and most of them I did not learn the first time. But when she told me ” how can I love you; if I never miss you”; I tell you it clicked and I got it the first time! We were talking about marriage, and how I needed time to myself. And now I make a point of it!
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WOW! Look at all those amazing goodies!! Speaking of amazing…my mom is amazing. And you should see all her crafting goodies…totally AMAZING! I think the best advise she ever gave me wasn’t in spoken words…it was allowing me to make choices on my own. I learned many lessons that way

The best advice my mom ever gave me was “be sure to find your JOY today”. It was a quote from my aunt’s poetry, after she passed away it became more of a mantra for my mother. Each day I find the joy…and it reminds me of my mother and my aunt. Double joy!

Happy Mother’s Day to all the Mothers! I love it when my Mom has home remedies that work like a charm! Using chamomile for almost everything! Good for upset stomach.

Two pieces of advice that my Mom gave me that I still remember to this day – don’t start anything you don’t want to continue and if you are having trouble with a project such as sewing, card making, crocheting whatever, put it down and come back to it later, you’ll have a new perspective on it.

Janet

Best advise….do NOT forget your roots!

she has ALWAYS shown me how important family is. always always always remember your family. when it comes down to it…they are the ones who are there for you through thick and thin.

My mother was never one to lecture and repeat words of wisdom….however, she has MANY, MANY qualities that she taught me by example. The one that is the most valuable to me is her ability to listen. She can listen to me and not place judgement, she just listens. I’m usually quick to give my two cents and I want to learn to be more like her in this area (and many more).

Goodness, it is very hard to think of one particular thing. I don’t know if my mom gave me a lot of advice as SUCH, more taught me things that are important. Like how to live out “love your neighbour as yourself”.

One of the best pieces of advice I ever received was from my aunt…she told me “Be careful who you choose to date – because you never know when you will fall in love.”

She was WAY too mushy for me, but I wish I would have appreciated all her hugs back in the day!

My mom always has great advice, too much to list, you’re the best mom!

The best advice I ever received from my mom was to never back down…no matter what it was over. I got my strength to do anything from her!

The best advice my mom ever gave me was it’s OK to say no.
I’m a real people pleaser, so whenever anyone asked for a favor or for help on a project or to volunteer for something I said yes EVERY time! Eventually I was getting over tired and stressed out and not spending as much time with my family as I should. She told me that it’s great to say yes, but sometimes it’s OK to say no too! That was so freeing for me!

Mums recent advice on my relationship breakdown is the best……..Just let it ride, don’t be too hard on yourself, and don,t make any rash decisions. Thanks Mum x

The best advice……….hmmm…..probably to believe in myself more, that I could do ANYTHING I set my mind to.

She even wrote that down and I carried it in my wallet all through college and when in doubt I read the note.”YOU CAN DO IT!”, and it got me through many a tough day!

I hope I can instill that in my daughter.

My mom was always huge on education. She only got a grade 6 education and always encouraged us to get a good education and make learning a lifelong thing. Thanks for the chance to win some great prizes. I’ve enjoyed reading every one’s posts. Aren’t mom’s the best??!!

Many words of advice but probably the one I think about the most would be when something doesn’t work out she’ll say “It just wasn’t meant to be.” It just comforts me in a way nothing else does.

Thanks mom!

My mum taught me to be honest and to stand up for what you believe.

My mom always said… be what ever you want to be – just be the best at it.

My mother taught me that marriage is about compromise, and that sometimes it is easier to turn the other cheek than create a fight! My marriage is going strong almost ten years later, so I think she might be right!

Happy Mother’s Day! Great photo of you and your Mom! I think the best advice that my Mom ever gave to me is do something you love. In her case, that is quilting and sewing and for me that means scrapbooking! Gotta love a Mom that understands your obsessions!

My mother always told me that love is not something you have for someone, it’s something you can’t help. She and my father have been married for 43 years this June, and they have always been a great example of what it takes to have a great marriage. Thanks, Mom! I love you!

The best advice my she gave me was to treat people how you would like to be treated, and always focus on the good in people. My mom is the best!!!

My mom’s best advice is to be true to yourself , others and that we are all GOD’S children…

Hmmmm…my mom is awesome….too much great advice over the years to pick just one thing.

I just know I feel lucky every day that she is my mom!

My mom’s advice:

Don’t say, “I don’t know”…. she hated it when we’d answer or say that..
and it used to drive me nuts that it was such a big deal, but now that I have kids of my own who say it, I’d like to start telling them to stop. It figures! lol

The best advice I have received is to enjoy every moment of when the children are small because it goes by way too fast.

I don’t know that I have one thing that is the best advice I have been given. I call my mom for advice every time something happens with my children that I don’t know what to do. She is always there to help. She’s one of my closest friends as well as my mom.

Best advice…All those fancy dishes you got on your wedding day….USE THEM and don’t let them sit in a china cabinet for the next 50 years! And ya know what? It’s SO true! It feel great to have an ordinary dinner every now and then on fancy dishes! Maybe we’ll do that again tonite!
~Lana B~
mamastamps at sbcglobal dot net

Remember who YOU are and stay true to that.

I think that the best advice my mother ever gave me was to always have God in my life.

I am the mother of three kids. Child number one is a 13 year old girl. Lately, I am finding myself in need of much H-E-L-P with number one’s attitude!!!

One of the best things my Mom told me was that she lived through my teenage years and I lived through my teenage years; number one and I will live through her teenage years too!

Thanks for the op to win some YUMMY blog candy!

Char in So Cal
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The best advice my mother gave me was to politely listen to all advice.. then follow my own instincts!!
It has helped me in many a situation!!

Happy Mothers Day to all the Paper Crafts Moms!!!

Kim

My mom has reminded me many times over the years to listen to your intuition and to never ignore it. When I’m having a hard time making a decision she tells me that the “gut” feeling I get about something is usually always right.

Happy Mother’s Day everyone!!

Even big problems are solved one step at a time. So don’t get overwhelmed. Just start picking at the solution.

I can’t think of a specific piece of advice but she sure taught by example. I can only hope to be half the woman she is.

Let me see. There is so much to choose from. I think that the best would tbe to trust in God.

best advice from mom?… do the best you can with what you have…
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The best advice my grams ever gave me was to take the career path I wanted and to not worry about the people who were trying to knock it.

My mom always repeats the advice to say the truth no matter how hard it is. Telling a lie may let you get away with something for a short while but not in the long run and one lie leads to many.

Thank you for an oppurtunity to win your beautiful giveaway.

Mom was full of advice, much of it passed from her mom (my wonderful Grandma). The ones that stick with me every day are: Do unto others as you would have them do until you. Always do your best. Wish more folks these days had had such advice from their moms and would put it into practice.

My mom taught me the joys of crafting.

My Mum’s best advice was “Be yourself, because those that matter don’t mind, and those that mind, don’t matter”. Works for me!

It is not exactly advice, but I find myself saying to my kids, “Don’t be sorry, just don’t do it” because my Mom said it to me! LOL!!

“Play nice.” Two simple words that can have such a huge impact on your life. What a great time we can have when we all play nice. :0) Thanks mom!

So every girl has had their heart broken and my mother has always been there for me with the best advice and a shoulder to cry on. I think the best advice she has given me is: Don’t dwell on what could have been, make plans on what can be…It’s so true! After my last fall from relationship grace my mom was there to support my plans to move on. So I kept busy and had absolutely no time to think about the past. Years later I’m happy and making the most of my life.

The best advice my mom ever gave me was the quote, ” In the light of eternity, will this really matter”. I often find myself saying this when faced with stressful situations. It works! More often than not the answer to that question is NO. I can then just let those situations go and not stress about them anymore. Thanks Mom!